I listened to a podcast recently about a husband and wife with differing political views. As you might imagine, they have had some heated discussions. After one such conversation, the husband stormed out of the house, furious with his wife. As he was cooling off, he had an epiphany: politics would destroy his marriage if he wasn’t careful. So, he and his wife embarked on a journey to find common ground. It didn’t take long for them to realize that they wanted many of the same things. With that perspective, they figured out a new way of discussing, listening, and learning.

I’ve thought a lot of about that. As I get older, it becomes clearer to me that most of us want the same things. To live in a safe and warm home. To have friendly and helpful neighbors. To be that neighbor. To have enough food that we can share a meal with others. To feel valued, understood, and supported. To have joy, laughter, and love.

Politics and the ensuing rhetoric sometimes obscure that.

There is a lot that is broken in our country, and as we try to understand why, many of us are quick to point fingers. I’ve been guilty of that to be sure. What I try to remember, however, is that there is so much good in the world and in our community. There are a lot of normal folks here helping their neighbors. From preparing a meal for someone going through cancer treatment to plowing someone’s driveway, there are countless examples of how we show up for each other. An election or your political affiliation shouldn’t undo that.

The heart of a community is its people, and we are fortunate to live in a community that takes care of each other. As we gather with friends and family over the coming weeks, I hope politics

will take a back seat to kindness and understanding. Creating a community where neighbors help each other is what will last, long after administrations come and go.

And for that, I am grateful.